Everyone Can Be Successful
Everyone desires to know the secret of success and of the successful people. How to become famous, how to succeed in business, how to make a lump of money, how to obtain a complete return from the minor functionaries, how to win the trust of the partners and respect of the competitors, in a word, how to become the ace of aces - all interviews with the known personalities, the names of which lift the ratings of the magazines, newspapers, radio channels and TV-programs, are built on the unchanging interest to this question.
The successful people walk up on top, they are promoted in the career, they are awarded for their distinguished achievements, they travel to the distant countries, they are treated in the other way, than the ordinary people, they are envied by the people around.
Have you ever asked yourself, why just one people get success in everything from the first time, quickly and almost without efforts? They just appear with the effulgent physiognomy, and the success comes to their hands. And the other, no matter how hard they work get nothing in the end!
The secret is in that these same ones, that is the first, are able to look successful, even if they are not. Indeed, ask yourself, are you going to make business with a man, if it is clearly seen from the first sight, that he is an unlucky person? You're not? And you're right. And what if you look so?..
So here is the first rule for today: the basis of any career is the ability to create an illusion, that success accompanies you in everything. And then, by the complex interlacements of cause-and-effect relationships, success will really come! Thus the most important in any career - is to create the illusion of success!
To start from it would not be bad to attend the places, where various social climbers and people, who already attained some heights spend their free time, and the atmosphere is favourable for communication. It can be an elite club, fashionable premieres, artistic parties and other places in the same strain. And, when you got there, turn your head on three hundred sixty degrees - notice and memorize manners, ways, gestures, catchwords, intonations - everything. Up to the preferred by the most successful people drinks.
By the way, as far as the drinks are concerned. The successful man is satiated and calm. Therefore, even if you haven't eaten the black caviar for three years , and you see a lobster for the first time in your life - do not fall upon a deficit. And if you do not know how to deal with this lobster, just give up the attempt to eat it. You are not in that position, when you can afford the experiments.
Well and, finally, the most important. The real social climbers do not hurry anywhere and are everywhere in time. Therefore, even if you are terrible late for the business meeting, slow down at the door of the necessary office. You must enter it without any shortbreathing, with your face calm. It is necessary to apologize for a delay, but do it with a Nordic smile on your face, without superfluous squat. Never make excuses and explain the reasons. The successful people always hold something back. They are strong, optimistic, and self-confident.
Here is a paradox: once you take a closer look at each of the heroes of such interviews, it appears that with all their specificity, uniqueness, individuality and eccentricity each of them came to the victory the same way.
He knew, what he wanted, he believed in his strength, he worked for all it was worth and was ready to pay a dear price for the success. Men and women, creative personalities and administrators, physicists and lyric poets, all of them are incorporated with a number of qualities which success is simply impossible without. And the question is not only in the strength of mind and purposefulness. But the optimism, mobility, openness to the world, adveturism and good judgment, are certainly included in their «internal luggage». They are not afraid of making the first step and always complete what they start.
They are not used to spare themselves. When they face difficulties or fell bad, they do not give a sign, when someone is in need - they hurry for help. If life gives them a lesson, they use this experience, without outlaying their forces on the lamentations, to double the desire to be on the right side of the hedge in any situation. They are quick off the mark, and it seems that all is given them easily. But unlikely it is so.
The successful people know themselves. They try to understand, what they like to do, what talents they can offer to the others, and work zealously on what seems the most important to them.